SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE If you have come to this site, it means you are seeking information on your relationship. You may feel your relationship is in trouble or perhaps you are seeking information for someone else. For whatever reason you have come to this site I hope you will find Save Your Marriage useful and meeting your needs. Let me begin by telling you something about myself. My name is Wayne Coleman, I have training in family dynamics, B.A., B.R.S., M.Dic. I was a member of the clegy for over 10 years. Being a Clegy I counselled many couples prior to their marriage, and counselled many marriages. After 20 years of marriage I found myself difting apart from my spouse and eventually the relationship ended in divorce. I can still recall the day that I packaged up my clothing and saw the tears in my wife's eyes. I can still remember the pain I felt and the pain that I caused. What went wrong? How could this have happened. Did we really change? I cannot say anything negative about my ex, for I believe she was not at fault. I know what you maybe thinking it takes two people to make a successful marriage, and you are correct, but it can only take one person to destroy a marriage. Sometimes me must understand what is going on inside ourselves if we want to save our marriage. Ask yourself some questions: 1. Are their issues deep inside of you that may hinder you from having a productive relationship? 2. What is the real reason that you believe your partner does not hear what you are saying? 3. What is are the main issues upon your mind? I mean what do you mostly think about? 4. What are the nagging issues that seem to never go away? 5. Why did you get married? 6. When did we grow apart? As one writers writes, "we do not drift into becoming interesting to our husbands or wives or familes or friends by accident. Rather, it comes as a deliberate decision to expand our interested and horizons, to welcome change and new patters of thinking, to aggressively pursure new and different interests and things to do on a regular and planned basis. And in the process we move towards becoming more interesting to ourselves and others because of our growing awareness...." Save Your Marriage is a site in which I hope you will beable to carry into every relationship that you have, because I believe these principles can guide us into a successful, and rewarding life. Save Your Marriage is in still in the developing stages and will change as the needs arrive. I want to assure you that if you choose to contact me with any question, your privacy will be kept with the utmost care. Although I am no longer a practicing clegy my vows are still dear to my heart. Save Your Marriage is full of information to aid you in developing and improving your relationship. Often their are questions you may have that are not answered in this site, so please feel free to contact me and your question will be answered promptly.
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